Relationships are part of human lives.
Communication exists because of daily interactions. However, communication does
not only reap understanding. People argue on different things which often lead
to crises.
The first common cause of problems in
marriage or relationship is money. Money brings you power, esteem, property,
and wealth. A bachelor who wants to court a girl makes it easier to get the
positive response of the latter if he has plenty of money. But, the girl has
the tendency of giving his sweet 'Yes' to the gentleman due to money and not
because she really loves him. You will never have a good lifetime relationship
with a girl who wants nothing but your money.
If you are not rich, you will really suffer
the pain especially if you can never afford to buy the things that you need and
like. Their relationship can be tested since meeting the needs become the
priority and not the love that they have vowed to share all their lives. If you
are living in a poverty line, what you have in mind is how to survive and not
how to love.
Having an extramarital affair to others
would cause the relationship shaky. These affairs need not to become sexual
just to damage the relationship existing among couples. Online chatting could
also do wrong to couples who would never use social media the right way. Trust
is the fuel of your relationship. Take note that once the trust is lost, you
would have a hard time building it again.
Unfortunately, there are some people who
easily get bored in their relationships so they decided to make an affair with
somebody else. The special attention which the third party could give would
make your partner think that he or she is being loved well.
Lack of communication is also seen a major
problem in a relationship. It is not enough among couples to feel that they are
in love with each other. There should be a need to have good communication in
order to have peace and understanding in a relationship. There are a lot of
issues being talked about by couples and their opinions are different to one
another. If you respect the opinion of the other, there is nothing to be afraid
about misunderstandings.
An open communication will make your
partner at ease to share to you his or her problem. If you really want your
partner to stay with you for life, you should need to understand and forget
being selfish and self-centered. Remember that love knows no bounds and is
something to be fought for. Don’t dwell on something not good, just as how bad silent treatment abuse would bring.
It may also help if you read about professional
sports divorces.
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